Well ok, as of 23 of Ramadan I have had one of the biggest revelations of my life. At least that of one which has to do about relationships and potential marriage. A sort of interesting way of assessing your relationship with your significant other. Now if your muslim this is more of a way in which Allah tells us if the person you are to marry, is truly to be the person you are to marry according to what he has been written. Now what this revelation is in Islamic terms is that If you are both still together in good standings meaning are not arguing and having relationship issues this means you are both meant to be together for the rest of your "Natural Lives" according to what Allah has written. Pretty much meaning if you are, as a couple are able, as a couple, to work through your relationship issues then this means you are meant to be with one another. At least until the next Ramadan that is. For the most part. Even though people do not really know what will happen from day to day, we a lot of the time are able to infer that some events may accur yet should not be to surprise if they don not happen according to how we inferred before had. The reason being, that we truely have no control over our lives no matter how much we wish to try and kid our selves. One thing I can truly say an am glad about is that if a relationship in Islam can make it through Ramadan with wonderful communication keeping in mind that it is Allah's will which matters most.
For those who are non-muslim I do suggest that if you are in a relationship with some one and if you want to test your relationship. Meaning if you want to see is you both are truly meant to be together both of you you should both fully fast during our holy month of Ramadan. You should both be seeing one another during this time, other wise it defeats the purpose of this test. you may not believe what I believe and all muslims of why we are to fast during Ramadan but just try it and see how you feel and see how it will test you and your relationships with others.
For those who are non-muslim I do suggest that if you are in a relationship with some one and if you want to test your relationship. Meaning if you want to see is you both are truly meant to be together both of you you should both fully fast during our holy month of Ramadan. You should both be seeing one another during this time, other wise it defeats the purpose of this test. you may not believe what I believe and all muslims of why we are to fast during Ramadan but just try it and see how you feel and see how it will test you and your relationships with others.
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